Enhances MSSQL connection with pyodbc support v2

[mattiasthalen]

Adds support for pyodbc as an alternative driver for MSSQL connections, providing users with more flexibility and authentication options.

• Introduces a driver option to choose between pymssql and pyodbc.
• Implements connection string generation for pyodbc based on connection parameters.
• Includes validation for different authentication methods when using pyodbc.
• Updates dependencies to include pyodbc.

NOTE Had to create a new PR, the merge conflicts was gnarly, easier to just restart.
Replaces PR #4335

[erindru]

Nice work!

[erindru]

Thanks for bearing with me! Looks great!